Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Darth said:
Wow TyTe`EyEz, that's fvckin brilliant dude!TyTe`EyEz said:
Yeah Darth, TyTe`EyEz has got you totally beat on this one...TyTe`EyEz said:
agreed here. I don't see why I should bother just because there's a hot women standing next to me (not that I think most supermodels are hot btw). There's clubs and bars if you want to pick up women.Sir_Turtle said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't really get you Captain Harlock.....Captain Harlock said:
By the way, ALPHAROMEO - Why exactly did you start this thread?ALPHAROMEO said:
Hey man, no offense taken. Obviously I've never been in this situation before, but if I was, that's what I would do. Guess it probably wouldn't work.OTB said:Don't take this the wrong way Darth, I'm not trying to rip on you. I'm only trying to point out the deep inner flaws in your game in order to help you become a better Don Juan
Because I don't feel like it during the day. Really can't be bothered with it. Then again I probably care less about women than most guys on this forum. My other goals in life are far more important.OTB said:I don't really get you Captain Harlock.....
Why waste such an easy oppurtunity basically being thrown into your lap?
If you had the chance of getting a fine piece of ass just by chatting her up, Why in the world wouldn't you?
(And please don't give me some moralistic bullsh1t about "I'm not so shallow that I'll go and hit on any supremodel that walks by" or the all-time dreaded "I'm not shallow, I go for personality over looks"
Just cut the crap guys! I'm pretty sure you've all been in the comunity long enough to be able to chat up a gorgeous girl of any type and be able to get her number
i like the way you put that... thats the same way i feel.Sir_Turtle said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
