Next "Move/Vibe" Help?

[Tedhe]

Hey Brothers,

I am looking for some communal wisdom here - to keep a long story short:

-Ive been working on a solid 9.5/10 for the past few weeks - keeping the vibe chill and interesting

-Recently ghosted her because things were flagging - which resulted in a 1.5week hiatus

-Saw her again and she was a lot more chill with me, said she missed me a bit - and she finally agreed to come over to chill

My question is should I should I open up more and begin to show more interest? I am just concerned that being to open and real will be a negative as it will show I am too interested?

Or

Should I just peacock and give her the good stuff? Make her feel special...

 

[marmel75]

You are thinking way too much about this. Just see her and bang her.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I think you are nervous because she is a 9.5. What would you do if she was a 6 or a 5? Do that...
She is just another woman, they are all 'just another woman . When you start giving them extra value they start believing they have extra value and your value goes down... Make her work to get you.