"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tedhe

Tedhe

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Hey Brothers,

I am looking for some communal wisdom here - to keep a long story short:

-Ive been working on a solid 9.5/10 for the past few weeks - keeping the vibe chill and interesting

-Recently ghosted her because things were flagging - which resulted in a 1.5week hiatus

-Saw her again and she was a lot more chill with me, said she missed me a bit - and she finally agreed to come over to chill

My question is should I should I open up more and begin to show more interest? I am just concerned that being to open and real will be a negative as it will show I am too interested?

Or

Should I just peacock and give her the good stuff? Make her feel special...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

marmel75

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You are thinking way too much about this. Just see her and bang her.
 
daddymonsterpoodle

daddymonsterpoodle

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I think you are nervous because she is a 9.5. What would you do if she was a 6 or a 5? Do that...
She is just another woman, they are all 'just another woman . When you start giving them extra value they start believing they have extra value and your value goes down... Make her work to get you.
 
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