Sedond date with this HB10 younger than me by more than a few years ... first date casual, second a fun night on the town .. (major IOI all night, I invite her up to my place at the end of the night .. she comes up and initiates kissing etc. no sex but major kissing ... she leaves a few hours later and tells me to call her ... This was last Saturday, I call a few days later and leave a brief message ... no response since ... do I wait it out, move one, make one more call?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Few hrs of kissing at your place and no sex? She probably thinks you are a virgin.
Next time, keep some dirty magazine in your bathroom, when you bring a girl home, excuse yourself to the bathroom, browse through the dirty magazine, caress your little fella if you need to, keep going until you are sexually charged but don't blow the load. Now, go up to her and let your instinct take over and beat it up. :rockon:
Next time, keep some dirty magazine in your bathroom, when you bring a girl home, excuse yourself to the bathroom, browse through the dirty magazine, caress your little fella if you need to, keep going until you are sexually charged but don't blow the load. Now, go up to her and let your instinct take over and beat it up. :rockon:
hahahahaha.
ya keep some dirty mags in the washroom so that she thinks you spank your monkey while taking a big stinky dump.
personally, provided its been a couple more days, id give her one more call. sometimes im horrible at returning calls because life gets hectic and when i get home the last thing i want to do is talk to someone - no matter how hot she is.
but after the second call that's the ball game. if she doesnt return the call thats that. if she returns the call a week later - i wouldn't return her call. OR if you pick up i'd cut it real short and tell her that you were just heading out the door and that you'll give her a ring soon (but then dont, just move on).
as for 2 hours of making out and no sex. not really sure how that happens. didn't you make a move to get in her pants? did she tell you that it was too soon so you stopped. details like that are essential to the advice on this particular post.
a woman not letting you in her pants isnt always bad. sometimes they aren't confident that they are clean down there as they should be - especially after a night out where their ****** hasn't had a chance to breath.
ya keep some dirty mags in the washroom so that she thinks you spank your monkey while taking a big stinky dump.
personally, provided its been a couple more days, id give her one more call. sometimes im horrible at returning calls because life gets hectic and when i get home the last thing i want to do is talk to someone - no matter how hot she is.
but after the second call that's the ball game. if she doesnt return the call thats that. if she returns the call a week later - i wouldn't return her call. OR if you pick up i'd cut it real short and tell her that you were just heading out the door and that you'll give her a ring soon (but then dont, just move on).
as for 2 hours of making out and no sex. not really sure how that happens. didn't you make a move to get in her pants? did she tell you that it was too soon so you stopped. details like that are essential to the advice on this particular post.
a woman not letting you in her pants isnt always bad. sometimes they aren't confident that they are clean down there as they should be - especially after a night out where their ****** hasn't had a chance to breath.
I wouldn't have kissed for 2 hours on the 2nd date, but that's just me. From a certain perspective, you don't leave her wanting more (because she's already had so much) and she probably does not expect more than kissing because you did not initiate sex after 2 hours. If I were to guess, I would say she thinks you're a dead end road. You can change that perception with one more voicemail. I would say one more call is all you have left.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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one call. you guys are more than just friends but dont beg for her ****. go get some other strange and let her see you with said strange.