I was dating a waitress in a bar (Sarah) that my friends and I hang out in frequently. This past Sunday while working she sat by me to talk and the bartendress came by and asked me "where's Carrie (a girl I took to lunch the day before)" right in front of her. Everything went cool that night, so I thought, but she seemed somewhat distant after that comment. The girl I took to lunch is just a drinking buddy and I don't have any feelings for whatsoever. However, I think Sarah may have took it the wrong way. You see the bartendress is a good friend of Carrie's and I think she told Sarah that we hang out a lot and went to lunch the day before. We do hang out, but just as friends - there's no intimacy there. Now I call, text and email Sarah (once each), but she doesn't respond. She's ignoring me. Gut instinct tells me she's upset.
So the next time I go in the bar and she's there, what would be the best play? How should I act? Ignore her back? Try to reason/explain to her what's actually going on (I may not be capable of this)?
So the next time I go in the bar and she's there, what would be the best play? How should I act? Ignore her back? Try to reason/explain to her what's actually going on (I may not be capable of this)?