She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ToughLove said:if a girl that u want doesnt want u, then u arent better than everyone else.
I don't think your ignorant, hip gangsta, illiterate, pants saggin', backwards lid wearing, d!ck sucking, ebonically literate ass spelled one word correctly?DonDan said:LMAO karma sutra u bald headed motha fuka dude u look like a fat a55 ninja turtle i dunno why u tryna diss on me talkin about pimples and **** when u never seeen my pic!! ur ass look like a fukin exageration of everythin thats ugly in america big bald head big ass eyes behind thick glasses big ass fat cheeks hairy ass arms big ugly black beard and overweight too **** i can imagin how fukt up ur ass must be u seem like ur self esteem is thru the roof and u are so fukin hideous buddist lookin ass reject i can imagin how g4y people think u are!!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've set yourself up clown. Like any good dog you do what I tell you to do. When I told you to improve on your grammar, you did it. Now go listen to Fitty or Diddy or whatever garbage fills that void in your dome.DonDan said:funny how you judge me or assume so many things about me when i laid the facts right on the table of how much of a reject you look like.
it doesnt take a genius to guess you dont get laid too much.
I guess its like the old saying goes, if you cant do, teach. Keep up the good work u old turtle you. You doin sosuave a great help !
I neither want nor will ever need you or any other goddamned person's attention or affirmation. That's a chick trait. Kind of like asking a man to post a picture of himself and then tucking tail and hauling ass? Not only is that gay as hell but you're screaming for attention.DonDan said:Hahaha you make me laugh!!
You are like the perfect stereotype for internet users.. i can imagin you sitting in front of ur computer naked lookin all fat and disgusting chatting to women online.
OKay listen ill leave you alone I mean im sure u got enough picking on u growing up in ur life to look like such a loser reject, SO HERES my proposition to you.
YOU TELL US, PREFERABLY SHOW US, what your "DJism with woman" has gotten you.
I never see field reports or lays or women you've gotten, so it seems like you're all TALK. SO TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF MISTER KARMA SUTRA! If u show me ur advice just isnt advice u read and sht u actually put to work in the real world for urself and has actually coped u females then i will apolgize to you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ValleyDJing said:Its not about what she thinks. Like I said, "If she doesn't like me, fuk her! There's something wrong with her." Not everyone believes in God, but like it or not, God is better than them.
ToughLove, you are ridiculous. I can almost guarantee that at least some of the girls you approach will in fact reject you. By your standards, that makes you unworthy as a man.ToughLove said:and what is wrong with her if she doesnt like u??? ITRS CUZ U ARENT GOOD ENOUGH
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What your saying does not make any sense. Is brad pitt good looking? Yeah. Is tom cruise goodlooking? Yeah.TruthHurts said:Does brad pit not know his a prize...
does top cruize think his not a prize...
does roy jones jr think his not a prize (maybe was conserned when HE LOST, bust still ****y and thinks his a prize)...
DUDE REALIZE THE TRUTH... ur leaning into "beauty is on the inside" , "i am great, even though no girl thinks so..hahah"
lol :moon:
i swear i heard another song being sung faintly in the breeze..KarmaSutra said:I swear I hear Rod Stewart singing faintly on the breeze . .
DJVladdy said:Guys, many of u probably live in good areas... but i used to live my middle and high school years in Worcester, MA, and went to a big, ghetto-ass, broken down public "school" if u can call it that. I still go to Wu-town alot cuz many of my friends are there and we chill, drink and hit up the clubs, play bball w/e.
I know lowlives who have NOTHING going for them selves, work in Dunkin donuts, stayed back in high school... you get the point... there is NO prize about them. Some of them get mad girls.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.