Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ToughLove said:if a girl that u want doesnt want u, then u arent better than everyone else.
I don't think your ignorant, hip gangsta, illiterate, pants saggin', backwards lid wearing, d!ck sucking, ebonically literate ass spelled one word correctly?DonDan said:LMAO karma sutra u bald headed motha fuka dude u look like a fat a55 ninja turtle i dunno why u tryna diss on me talkin about pimples and **** when u never seeen my pic!! ur ass look like a fukin exageration of everythin thats ugly in america big bald head big ass eyes behind thick glasses big ass fat cheeks hairy ass arms big ugly black beard and overweight too **** i can imagin how fukt up ur ass must be u seem like ur self esteem is thru the roof and u are so fukin hideous buddist lookin ass reject i can imagin how g4y people think u are!!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've set yourself up clown. Like any good dog you do what I tell you to do. When I told you to improve on your grammar, you did it. Now go listen to Fitty or Diddy or whatever garbage fills that void in your dome.DonDan said:funny how you judge me or assume so many things about me when i laid the facts right on the table of how much of a reject you look like.
it doesnt take a genius to guess you dont get laid too much.
I guess its like the old saying goes, if you cant do, teach. Keep up the good work u old turtle you. You doin sosuave a great help !
I neither want nor will ever need you or any other goddamned person's attention or affirmation. That's a chick trait. Kind of like asking a man to post a picture of himself and then tucking tail and hauling ass? Not only is that gay as hell but you're screaming for attention.DonDan said:Hahaha you make me laugh!!
You are like the perfect stereotype for internet users.. i can imagin you sitting in front of ur computer naked lookin all fat and disgusting chatting to women online.
OKay listen ill leave you alone I mean im sure u got enough picking on u growing up in ur life to look like such a loser reject, SO HERES my proposition to you.
YOU TELL US, PREFERABLY SHOW US, what your "DJism with woman" has gotten you.
I never see field reports or lays or women you've gotten, so it seems like you're all TALK. SO TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF MISTER KARMA SUTRA! If u show me ur advice just isnt advice u read and sht u actually put to work in the real world for urself and has actually coped u females then i will apolgize to you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ValleyDJing said:Its not about what she thinks. Like I said, "If she doesn't like me, fuk her! There's something wrong with her." Not everyone believes in God, but like it or not, God is better than them.
ToughLove, you are ridiculous. I can almost guarantee that at least some of the girls you approach will in fact reject you. By your standards, that makes you unworthy as a man.ToughLove said:and what is wrong with her if she doesnt like u??? ITRS CUZ U ARENT GOOD ENOUGH
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What your saying does not make any sense. Is brad pitt good looking? Yeah. Is tom cruise goodlooking? Yeah.TruthHurts said:Does brad pit not know his a prize...
does top cruize think his not a prize...
does roy jones jr think his not a prize (maybe was conserned when HE LOST, bust still ****y and thinks his a prize)...
DUDE REALIZE THE TRUTH... ur leaning into "beauty is on the inside" , "i am great, even though no girl thinks so..hahah"
lol :moon:
i swear i heard another song being sung faintly in the breeze..KarmaSutra said:I swear I hear Rod Stewart singing faintly on the breeze . .
DJVladdy said:Guys, many of u probably live in good areas... but i used to live my middle and high school years in Worcester, MA, and went to a big, ghetto-ass, broken down public "school" if u can call it that. I still go to Wu-town alot cuz many of my friends are there and we chill, drink and hit up the clubs, play bball w/e.
I know lowlives who have NOTHING going for them selves, work in Dunkin donuts, stayed back in high school... you get the point... there is NO prize about them. Some of them get mad girls.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.