"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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News Article: Women's Approval Helps You?

Boschy

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Beauty in eye of other beholders: study
January 17, 2007 - 11:50AM

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder but other people's opinions matter too when it comes to the attraction between men and women, according to researchers.

They found women are more attracted to a man if other women like him too.

"We tend to think about things like attraction as reflecting a private decision or a personal choice but our work shows that people's attractiveness judgments can be influenced in pronounced ways by what other people appear to think of those individuals," said psychologist Dr Ben Jones.

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http://www.theage.com.au/news/World...beholders-study/2007/01/17/1168709801346.html


I've read about similar results before. It's the old prizability effect.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Quote from the article:
"If I go to a bar with Brad Pitt, for example, chances are I'm not going to get much interest from the women because Pitt will hog all the attention,"
Where the hell can I find a university that will pay me to come up with a study with such insight??!!... :rolleyes:
 
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"Brad Pitt"??? FVCK Brad Pitt!! All the homos on the forum cheer!! :rolleyes:

For white girls this may be true but Denzel Washington or Michael Jordan will take all the hors away from brad boy -- he is not the most masculine dude!! Nor is the other over hyped white dude - the diminutive Tom Cruise!! "The best looking men in the world" (add Clooney to this shytty list) All bullshyt and All HYPE!!!!
 

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sadly it took a Dr to provide us with this useless information.

It always makes me laugh at how the media likes to put a good spin on things that are actually very negative to women and relationships.
 

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I found it funny that professors are being paid to research this stuff. Still...this is the scientific method. Propose a hypothesis, test it, publish the results and have it peer reviewed. If nobody can knock it down, it becomes an accepted theory.

Hey Brad might be chopped liver beside those dudes, but boy Tom Cruise is now universally hated by all women I mention him too. E.g. "Hey girls a question...If Tom Cruise walked here --" And they cut me off with "Ewww yuck" comments. Hahahaha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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