"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Newlywed reportedly dumped by husband after being seen without makeup

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Lol..One of the many reasons I go for natural ladies. Paint is for cars.
 

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This one's similar, only the guy sued his wife and won, false advertising. She had tons of plastic surgery but popped out an ugly baby.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...wife-ugly-court-AGREES--awarding-120-000.html

Chinese man sues his wife for being ugly, and the court AGREES... awarding him £75,000
  • Jian Feng was confused after his wife gave birth to an 'incredibly ugly' baby
  • He accused her of cheating and she admitted to spending £62,000 on plastic surgery
  • He then claimed she got him to marry her under false pretenses
What he thought she looked like



what she really looked like....

 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I dont find anything wrong in that.

Any woman in the western world which finds out that her husband was not a millionare but an average joe would win the divorce even more easily...I guess the formula would be "I cant trust my husband to be honest" instead of saying that he is not filthy rich.
 

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That's some crazy sh!t. He married Leia and woke up to Chewbacca.
Perhaps you didn't read the story. She is still attractive. Her appearance didn't change after they married. He only found out about her extensive surgery after they had an ugly baby.
 

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Perhaps you didn't read the story. She is still attractive. Her appearance didn't change after they married. He only found out about her extensive surgery after they had an ugly baby.
I meant the pictures you posted.
 

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Why on Earth would you marry someone up without seeing them without make up first. This is a major red flag, both physically and psychologically, and ignorance is largely the guys' fault.

It's not until men themselves start thinking more rationally, rather than jumping in to things like horny teenagers, start holding women to higher standards as well, that the quality of women in general will start rising again.

Women are way ahead of the curve in this respect.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why on Earth would you marry someone up without seeing them without make up first. This is a major red flag, both physically and psychologically, and ignorance is largely the guys' fault.

It's not until men themselves start thinking more rationally, rather than jumping in to things like horny teenagers, start holding women to higher standards as well, that the quality of women in general will start rising again.

Women are way ahead of the curve in this respect.
To be fair - this was in the UAE or some other backwards, arranged marriage country. Things are different there, I'm sure.
 

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One of my dating rule is for an LTR, she must look good without makeup.

I recently saw girls in the street that I found beautiful and wanted to ask on date. They had no makeup... didn't seem the same beauty... some even looked like having bigger head lol.

Makeup is for women but deceive men.

So date only those which match well
 

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To be fair - this was in the UAE or some other backwards, arranged marriage country. Things are different there, I'm sure.
'im guessing its muslim, even on arab emirates, have some rules like you can never live together unless you are married, sex before is even less likely to happen, so pretty much all they dates was talking with each other
 

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Majority of women are ugly with out make-up. There are some naturally beauties, but I am starting to realize they are mostly beautiful black women. They have gorgeous skin and perfect teeth
 
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