Newest installment of drama

[sazc]

Just support her man. Lay off the drama. Sounds like she is going through some trouble times, be there for her.

I'm not telling him not to support her - but she really doesn't deserve that from him. He's better off creating distance. She's pretty toxic

 

[Murk]

Just support her man. Lay off the drama. Sounds like she is going through some trouble times, be there for her.

Even with the stealing lying and turning it on to me calling me paranoid?

She sees a psychologist, she is getting hypnotised Wednesday for alcohol and anxiety, she had a seance on Friday

She does want to change I know that, but how do I support someone showing me zero respect?

To be fair, I’m all she really has over here and she does lean on me for support and always had and I do know she genuinely has feelings for me, but it’s too much for me to deal with

 

[sazc]

@Murkserious in the words of Nancy Regan

JUST SAY NO

 

[backseatjuan]

Have a serious talk with her, tell her everything, don't argue. Tell her no more sex. Tell her let's just be friends, you there for here, and that's it.

 

[Murk]

@Murkserious in the words of Nancy Regan

JUST SAY NO

So do I just pretend nothing happened, refuse to bang her again and just be cold and distant until she’s gone? I’m so fvcking disappointed

 

[Murk]

Ok she’s gone, I’m not gonna make an effort to talk to her but I need to know what kind of disease she has and tell her chlamydia doesn’t warrant cervix removal it’s just antibiotics.

I’ll keep you all posted but please keep advice coming

 

[sazc]

So do I just pretend nothing happened, refuse to bang her again and just be cold and distant until she’s gone? I’m so fvcking disappointed

I would. You don't have to be cold and distant, just be surface, aloof. Wish her well but don't get involved. Things are so fvcked up with her, there's really nothing you can do.

Look at it this way, she's brought nothing but drama to you. No offense meant, but why do you go into beta provider daddy mode with awoman who doesn't respect you? A woman who's never respected the things you've done for her?

Ur thinking with your one eyed Willy, not your two eyed, one brained, head.

 

[sazc]

Ok she’s gone, I’m not gonna make an effort to talk to her but I need to know what kind of disease she has and tell her chlamydia doesn’t warrant cervix removal it’s just antibiotics.

I’ll keep you all posted but please keep advice coming

You don't need to tell her anything

IF she has an infection her doctors will treat it correctly. All you need is to get retested for chlamydia in a week. If you are still clean then hold onto that info until she asks again.

If she has HPV you probably have it as well. Nothing you need to do unless you see a growth (wear a condom so you don't spread it)out BUT get the gardasil shot anyways

 

[Murk]

You don't need to tell her anything

IF she has an infection her doctors will treat it correctly. All you need is to get retested for chlamydia in a week. If you are still clean then hold onto that info until she asks again.

If she has HPV you probably have it as well. Nothing you need to do unless you see a growth (wear a condom so you don't spread it)out BUT get the gardasil shot anyways

How can I get tested for HPV? Piss and blood?

 

[sazc]

How can I get tested for HPV? Piss and blood?

Apparently u can't. It's a wart like virus (think abnormal cells that morph into cancer)

With men, if it's become abnormal, you will see there's an issue on your skin. With women it grows on the inside, so we can't see it.

Unless you are a virgin, most ppl have it. There's are tons of strains of hpv. It may, or may not, turn into something - your body can kill it sometimes.

Go to your doctor and ask for the gardasil vaccine.

CDC website:
Currently, there is no HPV test recommended for men. The only approved HPV tests on the market are for screening women for cervical cancer. They are not useful for screening for HPV-related cancers or genital warts in men. ∎Screening for anal cancer is not routinely recommended for men.
HPV and Men Fact Sheet - CDCCDC › std › hpv › hpvandmen-fact-sheet-february-

 

[Murk]

Apparently u can't. It's a wart like virus (think abnormal cells that morph into cancer)

With men, if it's become abnormal, you will see there's an issue on your skin. With women it grows on the inside, so we can't see it.

Unless you are a virgin, most ppl have it. There's are tons of strains of hpv. It may, or may not, turn into something - your body can kill it sometimes.

Go to your doctor and ask for the gardasil vaccine.

CDC website:
Currently, there is no HPV test recommended for men. The only approved HPV tests on the market are for screening women for cervical cancer. They are not useful for screening for HPV-related cancers or genital warts in men. ∎Screening for anal cancer is not routinely recommended for men.
HPV and Men Fact Sheet - CDCCDC › std › hpv › hpvandmen-fact-sheet-february-

Thanks a bunch for all your replies.

Are we talking my penis what u say warts on my skin? Everything is fine I feel good offing abnormal thus far.

Sara came home and avoided talking about it so I’m not mentioning a thing

 

[backseatjuan]

She has this and she has that, and then we find out she sees a psych. In another threat another dude told us her gf kissed another girl, no prove, just texts. That b1tch is manipulating you my man. Be you and her in Russia we'd manipulate that b1tch into losing that money, or else take her out for a little hike in the woods.

 

[sazc]

Thanks a bunch for all your replies.

Are we talking my penis what u say warts on my skin? Everything is fine I feel good offing abnormal thus far.

Sara came home and avoided talking about it so I’m not mentioning a thing

Yep yo penis.

Truth is that both of you probably have multiple strains of hpv. The likelihood is that anyone who is sexually active, and bones without a condom, picks up one or more from each raw dog partner. Then it becomes a situation of weather your body/immune system can suppress the infection, or not.

Really you should talk to your doctor about it and figure out how it could affect you, just to be in the know. Get the shots! My kids ARE being vaccinated for it.

 

[Crown]

This girl is obviously scared and her emotional filter makes her take stupid decisions. Nothing you can do about it. Don't drown yourself by trying to help her.

 

[sazc]

This girl is obviously scared and her emotional filter makes her take stupid decisions. Nothing you can do about it. Don't drown yourself by trying to help her.

The non stop drugs make her do stupid sh1t

 

[Crown]

The non stop drugs make her do stupid sh1t

Chlamydia and drugs. Jesus, what a wonderful future she has ahead.

 

[Murk]

I’ll go see my doctor and be more careful moving forward. I’m going to just chill the F out and not bother with confronting the stealing or sti blaming, I’m meant to be growing up this year not getting dragged down in BS

 

[Murk]

My best friend who knows all involved thinks Roomate has stolen out of spite again, she previously admitted to being jealous of my female friend of 18 years because we have had flings and flirtation our whole friendship.

He actually called it telling my friend roommate would make my life hell for bringing friend back, she stayed in my room we banged and roomate prob suspects as much.

The std thing, he thinks she’s lying about the cervix removal just making me scared that I could have given my female friend this thing, that could be true, I’ll just have to see if roomate flys back to aus for an op, seriously doubt it, she came home talking about her mum in some unrelated sh1t, this girl is such a game playing toxic freak.

Me and my friend/potential are going for dinner Thursday and I’m staying at hers. I’m also out Saturday. My roomate can stew in her own lies and toxicity I’m done.

 

[backseatjuan]

I think I'm the only one who called it sh1t in this threat, to be honest with you that was my first though when I read your original post. You don't have an STD, it's hard to get and STD, I never had one in my 37 years, and I love fvcking without condoms.

 

[TBG]

You say you're done every time but you continue to go back for more. 'Hey guys we're not together but me and Sara are giving it a go. Hey guys I brought this other girl home and Sara got jealous. Hey guys Sara went out and I'm sure she hooked up with someone else wtf. Hey guys we talked and we're going to give it another go but I'm also still sleeping with others. Hey guys..."

You're in a never ending circle due to your own doing. You continue to allow this drama in your life.