"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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123guy

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I'm 17, height aorund 5'7 and 160 lbs..
Yes , i know i sound heavy but its partly becuase i do sports.. so i guess part of its muscles..

I wanted to lose my little beer belly that i have, as well as tone up my chest, triceps, and biceps..

Could you guys suggest a routine that doesnt require weights at home?

Like, how many sets of situps and reps....
how many sets of pushups and reps...
etc etc..
I'd really appreciate it. Thanks alot..

I'm trying to get defined, and i was wondering what i could do at home, as well as at the gym..

Thanks,

123guy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NEWBIE101

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The most important thing for you right now is not your training.

You need to concentrate on your cardio and diet.

I recommend starting some HIIT cardio 4-5 times per week.

Also, you must start counting calories and make sure that you're getting about 11-13 times your bodyweight in calories daily.
 

OddTech

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5'7" and 160 isn't really that heavy. I'm 5'7" too and around 150 lbs. You probably need to lose only 5 lbs to be sufficient.

If you want to lose more fat and preserve muscle, I suggest you perform HIIT on 3 days a week and weight training on 2 days a week (follow Diesel's guide in the stickies). Take one day off. Your diet should be around 160grams of proteins (1 gram per lb body weight) and the rest should be in carbo and fat. This diet in combination with weight training should help you preserve muscle mass. Expect changes to happen on the orders of weeks, not days.
 

123guy

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I'm not familiar with these terms of HIIT and others.
What is it exactly?
and how am i supposed to know how much protein i'm taking in, and what kinds of foods are carbs and fat?
Sorry, i'm health illiterate, and i'd really appreciate it if you ugys could tell me.
haha
sorry..

and usually when i do cardio (swimming and jogging) how long shoudl i go for?
i know this is in the Diesel guide thing, but i just dont understand the stuff hes talkin about.. they all seem so astronomical...
 

DJ Girevik

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HIIT. You go all out for 30 seconds, then have an active-rest period for 30 seconds. Repeat for 5-10 minutes. For running, this means hardcore sprint for 30 seconds, walk for 30 seconds. Repeat that for about 5-10 minutes. It made me sore for a week, but it doesn't do this to most people, so if it does NOT do it to you, keep it up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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