"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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123guy

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I'm 17, height aorund 5'7 and 160 lbs..
Yes , i know i sound heavy but its partly becuase i do sports.. so i guess part of its muscles..

I wanted to lose my little beer belly that i have, as well as tone up my chest, triceps, and biceps..

Could you guys suggest a routine that doesnt require weights at home?

Like, how many sets of situps and reps....
how many sets of pushups and reps...
etc etc..
I'd really appreciate it. Thanks alot..

I'm trying to get defined, and i was wondering what i could do at home, as well as at the gym..

Thanks,

123guy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NEWBIE101

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The most important thing for you right now is not your training.

You need to concentrate on your cardio and diet.

I recommend starting some HIIT cardio 4-5 times per week.

Also, you must start counting calories and make sure that you're getting about 11-13 times your bodyweight in calories daily.
 

OddTech

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5'7" and 160 isn't really that heavy. I'm 5'7" too and around 150 lbs. You probably need to lose only 5 lbs to be sufficient.

If you want to lose more fat and preserve muscle, I suggest you perform HIIT on 3 days a week and weight training on 2 days a week (follow Diesel's guide in the stickies). Take one day off. Your diet should be around 160grams of proteins (1 gram per lb body weight) and the rest should be in carbo and fat. This diet in combination with weight training should help you preserve muscle mass. Expect changes to happen on the orders of weeks, not days.
 

123guy

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I'm not familiar with these terms of HIIT and others.
What is it exactly?
and how am i supposed to know how much protein i'm taking in, and what kinds of foods are carbs and fat?
Sorry, i'm health illiterate, and i'd really appreciate it if you ugys could tell me.
haha
sorry..

and usually when i do cardio (swimming and jogging) how long shoudl i go for?
i know this is in the Diesel guide thing, but i just dont understand the stuff hes talkin about.. they all seem so astronomical...
 

DJ Girevik

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HIIT. You go all out for 30 seconds, then have an active-rest period for 30 seconds. Repeat for 5-10 minutes. For running, this means hardcore sprint for 30 seconds, walk for 30 seconds. Repeat that for about 5-10 minutes. It made me sore for a week, but it doesn't do this to most people, so if it does NOT do it to you, keep it up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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