"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Newbie Needs Help.

Adrian

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What is a good way of making a girl laugh? Also when giving compliments what are good compliments to give?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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To make a girl laugh you can say or do something amusing/funny or tickle her arm pits!

Never compliment a girl you just met on her looks - comment on some other positive attribute - this tells her that you are one that values things that are more important than the physical! If she tells you her goals in life you can say, "You are a focused and determined individual" or "You have a positive outlook on things".

She obviously already knows that you like her looks or else you would have never approached her - this is elementary!
 

sAxyguy83

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The best compliments are not directly verbal. Maintain eye contact, lean towards her when you sit across from each other, and generally express interest in her opinions, background, etc. Ask the questions, and let her do the talking. This shows that you are interested in who she is as a person, not just a slab of meat. It makes a girl feel really special when you focus on her and not on yourself.
 

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Can you please not use the word Noobie here?
This isnt a video game and its not the high school forum either
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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