"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Adrian

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What is a good way of making a girl laugh? Also when giving compliments what are good compliments to give?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To make a girl laugh you can say or do something amusing/funny or tickle her arm pits!

Never compliment a girl you just met on her looks - comment on some other positive attribute - this tells her that you are one that values things that are more important than the physical! If she tells you her goals in life you can say, "You are a focused and determined individual" or "You have a positive outlook on things".

She obviously already knows that you like her looks or else you would have never approached her - this is elementary!
 

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The best compliments are not directly verbal. Maintain eye contact, lean towards her when you sit across from each other, and generally express interest in her opinions, background, etc. Ask the questions, and let her do the talking. This shows that you are interested in who she is as a person, not just a slab of meat. It makes a girl feel really special when you focus on her and not on yourself.
 

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Can you please not use the word Noobie here?
This isnt a video game and its not the high school forum either
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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