"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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newbie needs help starting

TomN

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OK, I have saved up about $200 so I can start bulking up. I am a 6'2" 160 pound weakling. I really want to start getting in shape, so I decided to come on here and see what I need to buy; equipment, powders, other stuff.... I'd also like to find someone who'll help me out a bit with a routine, I never worked out before, so I have no idea what I'm doing. Thanks a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Industry

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Man just read the forum and the archives before asking questions. There are a hundred people just like you who have posted on here and have gotten their answers from people. Just take a few minutes and look at other posts.... you will get your answer. I don't mean to sound like an a$$ but these questions get repetitive. Just do your own research before jumping in and asking.
 

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well, I'm more or less looking for equipment suggestions, like praticular brands in which I get the most bang for my buck, and what I need to buy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hello, I'm in the same situation. I don't want to hijack your thread or anything, but I'm wondering if I should have a jock strap to start weight lifting.

-Oleo
 

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if u have that much money, why not go to the gym...
 
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