"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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newbie needs help starting

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OK, I have saved up about $200 so I can start bulking up. I am a 6'2" 160 pound weakling. I really want to start getting in shape, so I decided to come on here and see what I need to buy; equipment, powders, other stuff.... I'd also like to find someone who'll help me out a bit with a routine, I never worked out before, so I have no idea what I'm doing. Thanks a lot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Industry

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Man just read the forum and the archives before asking questions. There are a hundred people just like you who have posted on here and have gotten their answers from people. Just take a few minutes and look at other posts.... you will get your answer. I don't mean to sound like an a$$ but these questions get repetitive. Just do your own research before jumping in and asking.
 

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well, I'm more or less looking for equipment suggestions, like praticular brands in which I get the most bang for my buck, and what I need to buy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello, I'm in the same situation. I don't want to hijack your thread or anything, but I'm wondering if I should have a jock strap to start weight lifting.

-Oleo
 

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if u have that much money, why not go to the gym...
 
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