"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Newbie Mission for Shy Guy

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Hey all you DJs I have been lurking here on Don Juan for quite a few months and studying other DYD stuff and some other Gunwitch and Tyler Durden stuff.

Today I made my first mall approach mission. First I had to make eye contact with 20 attractive women. Next I said hi to 20 attractive women.

This was done at the Shopping Mall over about 3 Hours as I did some christmas shopping as well.

Heres a field report:

Well making eye contact wasn't so bad, but I noticed a lot of girls would make the eye contact then look away right away or else they would make eye contact then give me a confused look. It was hard making EC with a lot of girls because a lot simply would just walk by and not look at me.

For saying hi, I did it to 20 girls. I would say Hi then smile or wait for them to break a smile and then i'd smile back and say hi. I got quite a few smiles from girls which was nice. BUT a lot of girls gave me weird looks when i said HI. They gave me looks like "what are you looking at" or it seemed like they thought i was trying to hit on them or something :confused: anyways i don't know if it's just because they are unfriendly or what. I said Hi to this one HB9.5 and she just looked at me kind of annoyed/angrily.....

So I guess my newbie shy mission at the mall went ALRIGHT in the end... i felt good doing it though. I also had a couple conversations with girls who were working at stores.... these were very brief and mainly had to do with clothes. I even asked one HB working "I have a friend who is looking to buy jeans for his girl friend. would it be better to buy a girl jeans that were a size too big or a size too small" (i got that from some mASF archive).

Anyways I would really appreciate some input and maybe recommendations on what you think i did right or wrong. Anyone have any other newbie missions that I could do??

Thanks,,

Petein
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when conversating. try comming up with funny and clever comments on the spot. Kinda like how james bond would do.

tylerdurden and gunwitch stuff is mostly garbage.

youd be better off just reading this.
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
 

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Originally posted by dementia
Nice man. Bad luck you got all the snobby b*tches.

I didnt actually do the hi thing. I think its dumb if you just do it randomly without any signal.

What i did do is make convos with shop attendants and also hairdressers and waitresses. Youll notice also that by doing this you are kinda jumping forward past the "hi stage"

Ok i know its not actually making a conversation from a cold approach, but its still more than a hi and you are building your skills more. Hell, and i dont know about where you live but where i live ALL THE HOTTEST GIRLS are working in the clothes stores, not walking around shopping. Just something ive noticed.
I tried doing this too, being more social, more outgoing, more talkative..
But often I just can't think of anything to say or talk about :S
Even when my own sister visits here, I don't have much to say..
 

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Props Petein, welcome to the board. Just remember if a girl is stuck up its her problem not yours. Its generally recommended to read the DJ bible and do the Don Juan Bootcamp if you're new to the site. Here's the link:Click What you're doing is also good but this will give you some structure. Keep up the good work and keep us posted.:woo:
 

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Thanks for all the advice guys. I think that flirting article is great.

Also I will look into the DJ Bible and do those missions as well.

Thanks

Petein
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by bossdog

tylerdurden and gunwitch stuff is mostly garbage.

youd be better off just reading this.
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
lmao don't let this guy turn you away from good material. TD's post are pretty good and his cold approaching is solid. Gunwitch method is another good guy, i like his natural game that he talks bout. I usually use GWM endgame. Don't try to knock down people who are considered one of the so called "gurus" of seduction.

Side note: I'm going to read that article in that link seems like it has alittle new things i could probably add i skimmed through the conversation part don't look too good but i'm a open minded guy and willing to see what that article is about
 

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Originally posted by Distant Light
lmao don't let this guy turn you away from good material. TD's post are pretty good and his cold approaching is solid. Gunwitch method is another good guy, i like his natural game that he talks bout. I usually use GWM endgame. Don't try to knock down people who are considered one of the so called "gurus" of seduction.

Side note: I'm going to read that article in that link seems like it has alittle new things i could probably add i skimmed through the conversation part don't look too good but i'm a open minded guy and willing to see what that article is about
Ok i see your an open minded guy so thats good. read my post carefully and realize that i know wtf im tallkin bout.

Notice u skip right to the conversation part. You and a lot of other guys are way too worried about what you are saying with your mouth. Go back and read the WHOLE article. Its was put to gether by a scientific foundation. its based on scientific reports done by socialogists and psychologists. Its not anybody's opinion. Its research put together and presented.

Who do you think knows more about this ****. Scientists or Internet "seduction gurus".

Tyler durden and gunwitch stuff is garbage. Period. Dont waste your time.
Seduction gurus lol. I wasted months reading that ****.
 

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Well then if i was these scientist most likely i'd be getting laid a whole lot. Ok they study it so... On flipside TD Gunwitch there not scientist but if there sh!t was garbage thousands of people wouldn't be doing it and getting laid. Don't worry i'll read all that this week and make a post on what i think. But to say TD and all those other guys are garbage is like disrespecting all the guys who get laid because of the material they put out. Then again you think what you want.

Distant Out!
 
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