"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What up guys, I have been reading the site for a few weeks, and I have to say POOK, you are a mother******* genius. Anyway, I have a problem.....

Last night I was talking to one of my girl-friends (whom I am extremley attracted 2), and she says she sees me like the overprotective brother she never had, and that getting into an intimate realtionship with me would be weird. Do you guys think I should keep trying to get her, or should I just move on? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she wont let me fcuk her bcuz she say it would be weird
 
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Read he bible and you should figure out what to do. Girls just don't do that to me. I mean I make them feel safe but definitely turn them on. If I see a girl thinks of me as a friend, I do not persue it.
 
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Haha, i was in a similar sitation a few years ago. Only a couple of months ago i found out i look just like the girl's brother, and that was the main reason nothing happened :D I say move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My problem is that I got stuck in the "gay friend" role while I was still AFC, and now I am trying to get out of it, but I dont want to lose her as a friend. I realize that she and I will never be more than friends, but I dont want to be the one she comes to when she is having problems with her bf or whatever.

Any advice on how I can get out of the "I ***** to you about how horrible my bf is and tell you how sweet you are to me even though I will never go out with you" role without having to lose her as a friend?
 
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