"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What up guys, I have been reading the site for a few weeks, and I have to say POOK, you are a mother******* genius. Anyway, I have a problem.....

Last night I was talking to one of my girl-friends (whom I am extremley attracted 2), and she says she sees me like the overprotective brother she never had, and that getting into an intimate realtionship with me would be weird. Do you guys think I should keep trying to get her, or should I just move on? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she wont let me fcuk her bcuz she say it would be weird
 
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Read he bible and you should figure out what to do. Girls just don't do that to me. I mean I make them feel safe but definitely turn them on. If I see a girl thinks of me as a friend, I do not persue it.
 
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Haha, i was in a similar sitation a few years ago. Only a couple of months ago i found out i look just like the girl's brother, and that was the main reason nothing happened :D I say move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My problem is that I got stuck in the "gay friend" role while I was still AFC, and now I am trying to get out of it, but I dont want to lose her as a friend. I realize that she and I will never be more than friends, but I dont want to be the one she comes to when she is having problems with her bf or whatever.

Any advice on how I can get out of the "I ***** to you about how horrible my bf is and tell you how sweet you are to me even though I will never go out with you" role without having to lose her as a friend?
 
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