"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NEWBIE here.. with a question on metabolism

Rashad

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HI all.. im new here..

Ive actually browsed through here a lot, but havent registered til now.. You guys all came across as very respectable and mature poeple, and i feel comfortable here, so i figured i would join :)

So to my question...

I have always been the skinny type.. all through high school i was always the small, skinny kid.. I weighed 2 lbs, 11 ounces at birth (seriously!!).. and i can remember wrestling (i wrestled all through high school) at 70 lbs class in 7th grade! I had muscle, and bone.. and no fat.

After graduation.. and having not wrestled or played soccer anymore, since school was over..I started to change. I didnt even notice it at first.. other poeple did. Then i realized, as i stepped on a scale at college.. I had gained about 50 lbs at least.

A first i thought it was awesome.. but then I noticed other things..

For one.. my arms.. and other parts of my body.. have nasty stretch marks.. My shoulders and arms grew tremendously, for no apparent reason.. and i am afraid to wear a wife-beater because of the marks..

At first, it was all muscle growth, but now i have a lot of fat.. and its SOO WEIRD... imagine being skinny as heck all your life, and then one day your fat.. tooo weird.

I have "love-handles"now.. as their commonly called.. and its freaking me out.. so i started exercising the other day.. for real this time:rolleyes:

Its just soo weird, going from having an awesome metabolism.. to being.. chubby. My face even changes.. and i can tell if i lost weight by looking in the mirror.. its like constantly changing.. oh yeah, im 21 btw(will be march 1st).

So my question is.. does anyone have a similar experience, and if so.. how did you overcome it? And is there a way to get my metabolism back?

Thanks for listening:D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Read the guide to cutting up.
 
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