"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Newbie help

zack77766

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Yea, just starting in the game. I need help on direct approaches( basically what should I say to get a number). I know a very nice girl who seems to like to flirt with other guys (would shove them, but is interested in me). Is she friendly? What should I say to her to get her number?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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playa99

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maybe shes a sunshine girl, but anyway to get her number, yeah superchills advice is ok. you read the HS bible yet?
 

(JJ)

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yea they're right, but for me when i was just gettin into the game it was easier to just say "hey i'm gonna hit the (movies, batting cages, putt putt, etc) why dont you come with me and keep me company?" it was always easier to ask her out in person than over the phone. (note:this will only work for a girl you've already built up some rapport with, as im assuming you have based on the information given)
 
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