"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Newbie help

zack77766

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Yea, just starting in the game. I need help on direct approaches( basically what should I say to get a number). I know a very nice girl who seems to like to flirt with other guys (would shove them, but is interested in me). Is she friendly? What should I say to her to get her number?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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playa99

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maybe shes a sunshine girl, but anyway to get her number, yeah superchills advice is ok. you read the HS bible yet?
 

(JJ)

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yea they're right, but for me when i was just gettin into the game it was easier to just say "hey i'm gonna hit the (movies, batting cages, putt putt, etc) why dont you come with me and keep me company?" it was always easier to ask her out in person than over the phone. (note:this will only work for a girl you've already built up some rapport with, as im assuming you have based on the information given)
 
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