"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zack77766

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Yea, just starting in the game. I need help on direct approaches( basically what should I say to get a number). I know a very nice girl who seems to like to flirt with other guys (would shove them, but is interested in me). Is she friendly? What should I say to her to get her number?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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playa99

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maybe shes a sunshine girl, but anyway to get her number, yeah superchills advice is ok. you read the HS bible yet?
 

(JJ)

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yea they're right, but for me when i was just gettin into the game it was easier to just say "hey i'm gonna hit the (movies, batting cages, putt putt, etc) why dont you come with me and keep me company?" it was always easier to ask her out in person than over the phone. (note:this will only work for a girl you've already built up some rapport with, as im assuming you have based on the information given)
 
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