"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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I am meeting up with a girl I am dating in New York City (Manhatten) on Friday. Since it is summer and we are not in school, it is a Long Distance Right Now. THis is probably our 15th date.

What are some good places to go to? What do you all suggest? We will be in the city for about 4 - 5 hours during the day. I am 21, she is 20.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hang out at the South Street Seaport, or go to the Tribeca Area, The village is always cool or you can go down to china town.
 
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I dont really know the city that well... what exactly is there to do in those places? What do you suggest?
 
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night time at st.marks place is pretty cool. the enviroment is very unique. big quote around the word unique. the stores there are one of a kind, should provide an interesting date.

just map quest it. st marks place is a street btw 3rd and 4th ave. china town is cool. look for broadway and canal and thats basically one corner of china town. canal st is known for its knockoff products. buy her a prada bag for 25 bucks. heh

use citysearch.com for some places. make her take you around if she is from the city area.
 
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Take her to Brooklyn's Coney Island Astroland on the D and F train line. Take her to the Aquarium after or before the date to Nathan's Hot Dog. Forget about Manhattan if she lives in NYC. Manhattan is pack with noise and people. You want to take her places she may want to go to and not had the chance.

I know lots of places to take her to. Here are some more.

Bay Ridge-Shore Road (Brooklyn)
Greenpoint - (Brooklyn)
Bronx Zoo -(Bronx)

Laser Park [lots of video games)- (Manhattan)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Coney Island! Are you crazy? I went to John Dewey High which is one stop away from CI. The place has not been any good since the 70's. CI is a dump, stay away. If you want to hang out in brooklyn go to park slopes or brooklyn heights. These are both very nice areas with alot of places to eat. Brooklyn Heights has the promenade which is a nice place to take a date. park slopes also has the botanicle gardens, brooklyn museum, prospect park. The 2 or 3 train to 7th avenue will drop you off in park slopes, and the c or a train will drop you off at Jay Street in brooklyn heights.
 
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Neither of us live in NYC, we are bothin coming into Manhattan via train. Both of us dont know the city that well... I have really only been in there for concerts and stuff.

Where in manhatten do you guys suggest we go? And hwo do you get there? Thanks!
 
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