"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New York City!

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Looking for DJs in NYC to sarge together, we can hit the bars/clubs together, do street pickups etc. should be a fun thing to do....

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in NY, but i'm on Staten Island. I occasionally go to the city, but I have direction problems.
 
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Call the mayor and ask him for a nice limo ride or just go on top of me and i'll give ya the 36 mile tour of the city. Or is it less?
 
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Staten Island should not even be considered part of NY. It is a waste of space!

Get out of there if you value yourself as a human being
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Crotch Sniffer
Staten Island should not even be considered part of NY. It is a waste of space!

Get out of there if you value yourself as a human being
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lol....I know.
 
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I will be in the NYC area this fall...I'm going to Seton Hall, a University in South Orange, NJ, which is just a quick train ride from the city.
 
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