"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New York City!

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Looking for DJs in NYC to sarge together, we can hit the bars/clubs together, do street pickups etc. should be a fun thing to do....

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm in NY, but i'm on Staten Island. I occasionally go to the city, but I have direction problems.
 
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Call the mayor and ask him for a nice limo ride or just go on top of me and i'll give ya the 36 mile tour of the city. Or is it less?
 
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Staten Island should not even be considered part of NY. It is a waste of space!

Get out of there if you value yourself as a human being
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Crotch Sniffer
Staten Island should not even be considered part of NY. It is a waste of space!

Get out of there if you value yourself as a human being
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lol....I know.
 
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I will be in the NYC area this fall...I'm going to Seton Hall, a University in South Orange, NJ, which is just a quick train ride from the city.
 
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