"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New Years stories

blue17

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hey guys i'm kinda drunk writing this, so excuse if i make any grammar errors. How were u guys New Years? I went to a party and with from friends and had a few drinks it was pretty fun. I wasn't very drunk for a couple hours but then suddenly i started to feel it.

I got a little bit of freak dancin going it was pretty cool. Overall there weren't many girls that i didn't alrdy know from high school so there wasn't much of a chance to meet new ppl. One problem is occasionaly i would be thinkin about this chick i am interested in, who wasn't at the party. I would be enjoying myself and then all of a sudden she would pop into my mind i would get a little depressed....wishing she was there. It would go away after a couple minutes thankfully, but it occured a couple times and i hated it. Overall though it was a good night, how bout u guys how was ur night got any stories?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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waldo

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Went out in my local town, quite a small place less than 5,000 people.

Got around 20 kisses on the cheek, a couple right on the mouth, and a few numbers. Then somehow got talking to a girl who wanted to borrow my phone, I could tell she was interested from the start so I knew where it was leading.

Walked her home then had a heavy makeout session outside, got her number then left her at about 3am. She then texted asking to meet up today, I won't reply for a few days but I'm 99% certain it'll lead to sex within the week. So overall a good night.

Only really annoying thing was after she'd leeched me she goes lets wait for my best friend, so I'm like "ok sure". The best friend then turns out to be a lot hotter, and much more my type of girl. Of course once I'd agreed to walk home the first girl I'd got no chance with the other chick (who was staying over at girl #1's).

I got her number though as well, I'll wait a few weeks then contact her, I'm pretty confident that should lead to sex as well.

So all in all I'd give myself a 7/10 for effort, 7/10 for achievement. Which is a lot better than previous years.

Happy New Year guys!
 

don_hollow_juan

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That son-of-a-b---t thought he had his game on. That son-of-a-b---t thought that he could f--k me up. And on top of that, that same son-of-a-b---t thought that he could beat me in a fight...

Riiight.
He got knocked the f--k out and his girl was f--ked the hell out by me.

Well, that's my side of the story. Happy Year 2005, dons!
 

Dee-Zy

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65838

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
I guess I'll be the first to tell mine ... since I'm prolly the first DJ to wake up on the east coast. lol

I passed out before the count down (10:30-11PM?) and I woke up at 5:30AM ...



LOL
The weird thing is that ... I'm not pissed about it
:confused:






...

oh god, I think my hung over just kicked in officially ... I'm gonna go throw up now.
 

Not Quite There

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quite a funny night

went to this indie rock type club, a lot of girls there, some fit ones, a lot of younger ones to, everyones a bit wannabe trendy in there and serious so basically, me and my mate jsut decided to have fun, and went round doing stretch routines in the middle of the dancefloor!

was fun to do, and also a bit of an icebreaker to chat to girls, got chatting to this 1 girl, who wasn't bad, and everything she said to me, i turned back on her,and joked about, gave her eye contact, and then told her how rude she was after 5 minutes because she hadn't asked my name! she was so confused!!! haha i could tell she wasn't used to this treatment. then i told her i would see her later and she grabs me and is like 'are you leaving?'. I probbaly gave her a bit to much ****y and funny, but wasn't really trying to pull her, just messing about really.

rest of the night was jsut more of the above really.

happy new year everyone.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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