Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
" To travel and connect with strangers .."iqqi said:
Thanks! As the resident AW of sosuave, I LOVE it when you old "mature" guys choose to "parody" my contributions to a thread, rather than just contribute yourselves! Thanks a bunch, my AW quota has almost been met today, already! WOO HA.jophil28 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jophil28 said:
That is because you secretly are in love with me, and my highly ambitious resolutions made you worry that I might be out of your league. So you had to "knock me down a few pegs" in your mind, to make yourself feel better. Which gets you nowhere, and is not healthy!!! Look Keto, you just aren't my type. How bout YOU make a resolution to stop thread stalking me? :yes:ketostix said:That's how I read iqqi's New Year's resolutions jophil. I read her resolutions as, "I want to hook it up with and use strangers so no one will know I'm being slutty, and I want to AW and branch swing and won't settle for any one guy unless he's way out of my legue."
What is a CBR?Rhoto said: