how do u know it is fun, just coz its fun for you doesnt mean its fun for others.MooseGod said:It's good to have goals man, but come on... goals on number closes? approaches? Trying to be an "alpha male" overnight? You're putting too much pressure on yourself and taking all the fun out of something that is supposed to be just that...fun.
Learn to flirt. Have fun. Smile more. Be positive. Talk to everyone you meet. Being self-possessed and confident goes way farther with girls than being more of an alpha male douche than the other guy. It's easy to tell when people are trying too hard.
Props for realizing something has to change and working to affect it. Good luck in the new year.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
New Years Resolution... I will revamp my self completely.
- Thread starter jdawgmcb
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
For those of you who think that i'm trying to do this all in one year, that is definitely not the case... I have been reading and utilizing different parts of the PUA community within the past 2 years, but i have never seriously used them to my advantage... Yes, i have number closed before, and yes, i have had girlfriends before, but i want more than that...i want to be more than an AFC..and i think a year is a good time to make several advantages...Mystery himself said "6 weeks" is the amount of hard studying time it takes before you start seeing pretty impressive results.
Now, do i expect to accomplish all of these? definitely not, Would i like to? Hell yes i would.
I am by far the most muscular shape kid in my social circle (school area, surrounding, etc) so that's not a problem...it's the social, inner game that i need to work on.. For 3 years straight, i thought going to the gym would help me meet women, it didn't do as much as i thought. I will no longer sit around while hundreds of HBs are around me and i don't do anything about it. It's not just to pick up a woman and fvck them ****less, it's to change my life completely for the better.
and for an update from today, i opened a few sets with not much luck, gotta work on the social hookpoint.
Now, do i expect to accomplish all of these? definitely not, Would i like to? Hell yes i would.
I am by far the most muscular shape kid in my social circle (school area, surrounding, etc) so that's not a problem...it's the social, inner game that i need to work on.. For 3 years straight, i thought going to the gym would help me meet women, it didn't do as much as i thought. I will no longer sit around while hundreds of HBs are around me and i don't do anything about it. It's not just to pick up a woman and fvck them ****less, it's to change my life completely for the better.
and for an update from today, i opened a few sets with not much luck, gotta work on the social hookpoint.
First update in a while... I will be changing my school for the last semester of the year, for lots of reasons, one of them being that i need a new environment. (A lot of it has to do with classes/college prep though).
Anyway, managed to #close three times last week, and i have set up a date
Anyway, managed to #close three times last week, and i have set up a date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Today i used a comedy gambit opener on a HB8 and before i knew it, 2 more HBs had entered the set, i was successfully running a 4 set (not including self) for around 10 minutes..
Got aspirations of a get together with one of them too
God, i love the pick up community...after being a volunteer fire fighter and using that as a gambit after i begin to stack routines is an AMAZING DHV.
Got aspirations of a get together with one of them too
God, i love the pick up community...after being a volunteer fire fighter and using that as a gambit after i begin to stack routines is an AMAZING DHV.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Yo son I saw your Washington State post, if you keep this up you're gonna be better than most of the keyboard jockeys on this site.
Quick questions, how do you normally open? Direct, indirect, situational, opinion... just interested. Your inner game seems pretty good, shown by all your approaches.
Quick questions, how do you normally open? Direct, indirect, situational, opinion... just interested. Your inner game seems pretty good, shown by all your approaches.
Opinion openers have been pretty successful with me as far as my dead-cold approaches.. I usually will develop my own based on the venue i am at... for example, i was sarging yesterday while in a shoe store at a mall, my opener, "i don't want you getting cold feet on me, lets see some shoes" to an HB7 that worked there managed to turn into a number closeSupremo said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
jdawg, just make sure you don't start off in rapport. Don't come off as needing rapport initially.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
From what it sounds like here, you're doin great. Keep progressing and Mystery is gonna have to watch his back, lol.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Time for a long needed update..
I went out last night, and lets just say that I had a great time and the utliziation of my plan is following out for the best.
I am indebted to this community for changing my life completely for the best, the full revamp isn't done completely, but i am moving at a very high amount of intensity and i am very pleased
I went out last night, and lets just say that I had a great time and the utliziation of my plan is following out for the best.
I am indebted to this community for changing my life completely for the best, the full revamp isn't done completely, but i am moving at a very high amount of intensity and i am very pleased
I will have you know that I still am following to my new years resolution goal - not making the exact hefty goals i had made.
But today, I have a date planned that will most likely end in a "physical" meaning.
All thanks to the DJ method.
But today, I have a date planned that will most likely end in a "physical" meaning
.All thanks to the DJ method.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.