how do u know it is fun, just coz its fun for you doesnt mean its fun for others.MooseGod said:It's good to have goals man, but come on... goals on number closes? approaches? Trying to be an "alpha male" overnight? You're putting too much pressure on yourself and taking all the fun out of something that is supposed to be just that...fun.
Learn to flirt. Have fun. Smile more. Be positive. Talk to everyone you meet. Being self-possessed and confident goes way farther with girls than being more of an alpha male douche than the other guy. It's easy to tell when people are trying too hard.
Props for realizing something has to change and working to affect it. Good luck in the new year.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
New Years Resolution... I will revamp my self completely.
- Thread starter jdawgmcb
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
For those of you who think that i'm trying to do this all in one year, that is definitely not the case... I have been reading and utilizing different parts of the PUA community within the past 2 years, but i have never seriously used them to my advantage... Yes, i have number closed before, and yes, i have had girlfriends before, but i want more than that...i want to be more than an AFC..and i think a year is a good time to make several advantages...Mystery himself said "6 weeks" is the amount of hard studying time it takes before you start seeing pretty impressive results.
Now, do i expect to accomplish all of these? definitely not, Would i like to? Hell yes i would.
I am by far the most muscular shape kid in my social circle (school area, surrounding, etc) so that's not a problem...it's the social, inner game that i need to work on.. For 3 years straight, i thought going to the gym would help me meet women, it didn't do as much as i thought. I will no longer sit around while hundreds of HBs are around me and i don't do anything about it. It's not just to pick up a woman and fvck them ****less, it's to change my life completely for the better.
and for an update from today, i opened a few sets with not much luck, gotta work on the social hookpoint.
Now, do i expect to accomplish all of these? definitely not, Would i like to? Hell yes i would.
I am by far the most muscular shape kid in my social circle (school area, surrounding, etc) so that's not a problem...it's the social, inner game that i need to work on.. For 3 years straight, i thought going to the gym would help me meet women, it didn't do as much as i thought. I will no longer sit around while hundreds of HBs are around me and i don't do anything about it. It's not just to pick up a woman and fvck them ****less, it's to change my life completely for the better.
and for an update from today, i opened a few sets with not much luck, gotta work on the social hookpoint.
First update in a while... I will be changing my school for the last semester of the year, for lots of reasons, one of them being that i need a new environment. (A lot of it has to do with classes/college prep though).
Anyway, managed to #close three times last week, and i have set up a date
Anyway, managed to #close three times last week, and i have set up a date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Today i used a comedy gambit opener on a HB8 and before i knew it, 2 more HBs had entered the set, i was successfully running a 4 set (not including self) for around 10 minutes..
Got aspirations of a get together with one of them too
God, i love the pick up community...after being a volunteer fire fighter and using that as a gambit after i begin to stack routines is an AMAZING DHV.
Got aspirations of a get together with one of them too
God, i love the pick up community...after being a volunteer fire fighter and using that as a gambit after i begin to stack routines is an AMAZING DHV.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Yo son I saw your Washington State post, if you keep this up you're gonna be better than most of the keyboard jockeys on this site.
Quick questions, how do you normally open? Direct, indirect, situational, opinion... just interested. Your inner game seems pretty good, shown by all your approaches.
Quick questions, how do you normally open? Direct, indirect, situational, opinion... just interested. Your inner game seems pretty good, shown by all your approaches.
Opinion openers have been pretty successful with me as far as my dead-cold approaches.. I usually will develop my own based on the venue i am at... for example, i was sarging yesterday while in a shoe store at a mall, my opener, "i don't want you getting cold feet on me, lets see some shoes" to an HB7 that worked there managed to turn into a number closeSupremo said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
jdawg, just make sure you don't start off in rapport. Don't come off as needing rapport initially.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
From what it sounds like here, you're doin great. Keep progressing and Mystery is gonna have to watch his back, lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Time for a long needed update..
I went out last night, and lets just say that I had a great time and the utliziation of my plan is following out for the best.
I am indebted to this community for changing my life completely for the best, the full revamp isn't done completely, but i am moving at a very high amount of intensity and i am very pleased
I went out last night, and lets just say that I had a great time and the utliziation of my plan is following out for the best.
I am indebted to this community for changing my life completely for the best, the full revamp isn't done completely, but i am moving at a very high amount of intensity and i am very pleased
I will have you know that I still am following to my new years resolution goal - not making the exact hefty goals i had made.
But today, I have a date planned that will most likely end in a "physical" meaning.
All thanks to the DJ method.
But today, I have a date planned that will most likely end in a "physical" meaning
.All thanks to the DJ method.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.