"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New Years Poll

Did you get laid this new years??

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 19.6%
  • No

    Votes: 37 80.4%

  • Total voters
    46

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Master Don Juan
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I'll keep it short... if you got laid dec31-jan1 click yes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamMalone

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No. A girl sent me a text message to go over her place to "celebrate the new year" at 1:30 this morning, but I was too drunk to respond unfortunetly.
 

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Thank God I'm not the only one.... not that it's end all or be all, but what better night to start turning around your game than at the start of a new year???
 

oakraiderz2

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I didnt. I should have. I made out at midnight with some girl within 10 min of meeting her. But oh well, i accomplished one of my goals already...awesome way to start off the new year.
 

Chaos-Knight

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no for me too :rolleyes:

funny I had this girl fall asleep beside me and put her head on
my shoulder for awhile as she slept:D
She was out of it, So was I... ( I did't know her btw= name only)

I'v been away from the game for too long~

now I need to get back to my training;)

this year will be better....

happy new year to all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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vorbis

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didn't either. was chatting up a teacher for a while but it kinda fizzled out. Ended up at a fairly poor house party. Hardly any women! Happy new year to everyone!
 

uzio

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I didn't. Once my plans went heywire i simply took my bike and went for a ride.

Through 12 inches of snow that is. Good times :D and the view of all the fireworks around me (I was on top of a hill, having a view 5 miles in each direction) was splendid :p.
 

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One of my g/fs from back home shipped one out to me on new years!

Viva las vegas!
 

Bonhomme

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Not quite, but came pretty close

Not quite, but I did get pretty touchy-feely with a gal in a hot tub, who was all over me later, and probably would have gone further had I not left, but I'd promised my carless friend who lives in the flat below me a ride, so I got her # and left before anything more happened.

Which is OK, because I chatted on the phone earlier with a hotter (very hot, in fact) prospect, and another 2 cute friends with potential (met me in my chump days, now appear to see me in a much different light -- but now I'm the one who's not sure I want to get involved with them).

As far as women go, to quote an awful cliche', 2006 looks so bright I gotta wear shades...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nope I didn't get laid, but it was still fun as hell. I went to a party, made out with two girls (both had boyfriends), and almost got a blow job from a drunk punkish girl, but the party's host wouldn't allow it and drove her home.
 

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No but I kissed some girl named Erica when it turned 12. Nothing serious just a peck on the lips. I had only known her for about half an hour. I think she was HB6.5 with nice tits. You gotta love how b!tches are about that not having anyone to kiss at 12 AM sh!t. According to my friend I was so f*cked up that I started acting like my true as$hole self to everyone and she stayed away from me for the rest of the night. Damn alcohol
 

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I had usual se with my woman. Lots of. But its normal if You are in LTR. Anyways from beeing laone i remember i was always getting at least a head on new years party. Girls are drunk and horny, its preety easy.
 

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I didn't either

Although, I did get a midnight kiss from a ug3. She acted pretty desperate all night, plus I wasn't interested in anything at all with her, and the fact that I was completely wasted didn't help either.

I actually had a really good night though. Got one number, probably in the friends zone, but maybe not. And, even if, she is probably about a hb7.5 (to me), and it will either be social proof, or a hook-up, or both--at this point, who knows. I'm gonna call her tomorrow to set something up for this weekend.
 

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Eh, who cares about getting laid on New Years. I personally hung out with all my best friends from high school, we hadnt seen each other in a while. We all got really drunk, and about 30 of us, guys and girls alike, passed out in this 1600 square foot house. No room to f#ck in that house unless i wanted to give everyone a show.


New Years kisses are too hyped up. I got laid last week so that was good enough for me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
I got laid last week so that was good enough for me.
Probly why you don't care... but that's all good. Man, you want to see what the deal is, go to ANY bar within the 2-3 days before new years next year, and you'll find out why getting laid on New years happens so easily.

It's my friends b-day on the 29th, so that's made a third year tradition where the story pans out the same way everytime. What we did was we partied all the boys together till about 10pm and that's when we took off to the party we were intending to go to, it wasn't all the same ones... we scattered to about 6 different parties that night.
 
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