"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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New Years kiss...

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At this huge New Years party with my friends. The new year is about to roll around so I grab one of my good friends (female HB9) and pull her over to where the rest of our friends are standing. The New Year hits and everyone is making noise and saying happy New Year I look at my friend and she is looking at me with a smile. So I walk over to her lean in and give her a kiss on the lips and then give her a huge and say Happy New Year. She asks "why did you kiss me?" and I say relax it was just a New Years kiss. Then I walk away to see what everyone else was up to.

Within minutes she is by my side again and turns and gives me another kiss, we both laugh, talk a bit and I turn and leave again. I go and hang out with the guys for a while. I see her when I come back looking at me with a smile. So I walk over and sit beside her, we talk a bit and then kiss (more passionatley) a few times. When I try to get up and leave she keeps pulling me back. I waited a bit and then got up and left.

We all go back to our hotel and she pulls me aside and we talk some and kiss a bunch more. Then I decided we needed more privacy so I took her to one of the other rooms and locked my friends out. A lot less talking occurred from this point on, more cloths coming off~! Great night~!

I haven't talked to her since. I am going to call tonight and just play like it was no big thang. Or should I feel out the situation first and play it from there?

Keep in mind this is one of my good friends.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude, play it like it was passionate sex, that's the only way to do it, from what I can see, call her and and ask her out man, HB9 Shoots for the newyears kiss, she puts out you take it, shes got to have feelings for you, especially if she didn't mind kissing you, and well to state the obvious, you got her hooked without realizing it, one drastice move can change the way a girl can feel about you, go for it man, you deserve it.

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I'd call her soon, otherwise she might might think you view her as a slut.
 
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I will talk to her tonight... Will update...
 
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Well I talked to her and everything is fine, we had a good laugh about everything.

I am not sure if I am alright with just fine though. I am finding it hard to keep up the game with such a close friend. Its just not the same. This sucks because she is a HB9 and because we get along so well.

I think I am going to have to walk away from this one because it can only end in disaster.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My new years didn't go as well as expected, even tho I met a girl in my hometown that really wanted me bad, and we ended up hooking up most every day for a week... and I got the pictures to prove that she is easily an 8 or a 9 dolled up.
 
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My new years didn't go as well as expected, even tho I met a girl in my hometown that really wanted me bad, and we ended up hooking up most every day for a week... and I got the pictures to prove that she is easily an 8 or a 9 dolled up.
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Well lets see the pics then.
 
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I think I am going to have to walk away from this one because it can only end in disaster.
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With that attitude, don't expect to go far in life. You might as well give up on all women while your at it and stick to Palmela. You've been pining over this women for a year and your going to throw it all away cuz your chicken. I think your tryin to win the AFC of 2007 award.
 
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MacAvoy said:
With that attitude, don't expect to go far in life. You might as well give up on all women while your at it and stick to Palmela. You've been pining over this women for a year and your going to throw it all away cuz your chicken. I think your tryin to win the AFC of 2007 award.
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Theres an award?

Yeah I wrote that in a moment of frustration, but I am glad to be called out on it- thanks.

There is a lot more to it than I am going to discuss on this board- BUT essentially I was going to taking the easy way out by walking away. Looks like I am going to have to make a go of it weather it turns out good or bad- then theres no regret!

Back on track- for now at least!
 
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Dude it's almost a certaintly that she's been thinking about this for a while. You've probably attracted her without even knowing or trying (this type of attraction can be v.powerful).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude it's almost a certaintly that she's been thinking about this for a while. You've probably attracted her without even knowing or trying (this type of attraction can be v.powerful).
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So now I need to keep this attraction going. Any tips?
 
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We went out for a bite to eat and everything went well. Neither one of us felt awkward and we talked openly about everything.
 
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