"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I was out partying with some buds over new years, and ended up hooking up with this girl that was from a state halfway across the country. It was the most unbelievable sex I've ever had. She was so fine too, the best legs I've seen in a long time. She works out all the time, a body that wouldn't quit. To top it off, her face was hot too. She taught me a thing or two, that's for sure, :eek:! Anyway, she gave me her number and e-mail address. She has family near where I live, so she will be visiting them from time to time, probably around holidays. How do I keep in touch with her well enough so that when she comes in town I will have another hookup with her. She called me the day after we hooked up, and we chatted for about 15 minutes. I was thinking about calling her around the middle of next week, which would be about 6 days since I last talked to her. Should I just forget about her, or try to keep the connection till she comes back in town?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would just send her an occasional funny email, via forwarded links and stuff. This lets her know that she's still in your thoughts from time to time, without spooking her.
 
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Don't go crazy on her a@@

Remember it was a ONS - and if you want to hit it again, you should play it cool....

I agree with emailing her funny sh#t = but don't overdo it.
 
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15 minutes? Thats 7 times more than you should have done. Already fvcked this one up. NEXT
 
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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
15 minutes? Thats 7 times more than you should have done. Already fvcked this one up. NEXT
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What the FVCK are you on about???? You can talk to a girl AN HOUR OR TWO without it fvcking ANYTHING up, you can even highten her IL A BUNCH. It's just HOW the chat flows... Funny and sexual undertones and chatter = GOOD and will most often get her even more into you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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15 minutes? Thats 7 times more than you should have done. Already fvcked this one up. NEXT
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- FreeStyleZ

Although it is true that the more you talk, the more likely you open up the possiblilty of saying something stupid. However, consider the other end of the spectrum. Suppose she was feeling slutty and wanted some reassurance that even though it was a ONS, the fellow it was with was at least decent enough to speak with her without a stopwatch in his hand.

Next? Based on what? 7 extra minutes? You must be joking. If I had to next every girl I spoke with on the phone more than 15 minutes, I'd likely still be a virgin.
 
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Ok I think I need to start writing more nicely like Big Pappy :p Even though we said the same I came off less... :)
 
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