I met this girl new years eve and we kissed on the lips that night, now my friend thinks that she might be a slut but the thing is she was approaced by a lot of dudes and i was the only who got kissed. Do you guys think if i tried she would date me?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.