I met this girl new years eve and we kissed on the lips that night, now my friend thinks that she might be a slut but the thing is she was approaced by a lot of dudes and i was the only who got kissed. Do you guys think if i tried she would date me?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.