MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
new TV show - Fat Girl Revenge
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This made me laugh. I know several men, myself included, who were chunky/heavy at one point who were rejected by women solely based on weight.muscleman said:
Since losing the weight and getting in shape, the last thing that has crossed my mind is "fat boy revenge". I haven't thought a single time about "getting payback" on the women who rejected me because I was out of shape. Women, by and large need to grow the f*ck up and take some ownership for the crap that comes their way.
Trailboss
Don Juan
Yep! Once a porky: always a porky....they struggle and suffer and deny themselves their favorite chocolate "security blankets", and once they get the guy they want: BOOM! They grenade up! LOL! And they wonder why we end up bangin their sisters.....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.