MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
new TV show - Fat Girl Revenge
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This made me laugh. I know several men, myself included, who were chunky/heavy at one point who were rejected by women solely based on weight.muscleman said:
Since losing the weight and getting in shape, the last thing that has crossed my mind is "fat boy revenge". I haven't thought a single time about "getting payback" on the women who rejected me because I was out of shape. Women, by and large need to grow the f*ck up and take some ownership for the crap that comes their way.
Trailboss
Don Juan
Yep! Once a porky: always a porky....they struggle and suffer and deny themselves their favorite chocolate "security blankets", and once they get the guy they want: BOOM! They grenade up! LOL! And they wonder why we end up bangin their sisters.....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.