well, I do agree that those guys that hover around girls are probably trying to get in her. And yeah, they will try to c-block you if they see your coming on to that girl, even more so if your succeeding. I had a guy do that recently; got this girl to dance with me at a club and out of the corner of my eye I spot the guy glaring at me. Though it was nice revenge when he saw me get both a kiss (well, more like make out session) and a number (sent him a pretty ****y look too; kinda like a "yeah, I'll be probably be fvcking the girl you want" look). Hell, I might of been able to take her home with me too, but I decided to quit while I was ahead. I'll get with her soon enough anyways. :rockon:
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New trend?? "Guy Friends"
- Thread starter Drewskie
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm very surprised with some of the responses here.
I go out with female friends a lot, and just about all of them are just that -- female friends. If some other guy starts dancing with them, good for them! Time for me to find someone to dance with, too (if I haven't already.)
In fact, having a few females in the mix when I go out is AMAZING for my game, especially clubs. The last thing I want to be at the club is one of those dudes who only came with his 'bros' and slithers around with them looking for targets like a pack of demented velociraptors. The best case scenario is when I'm with some good people (guys AND girls,) having a great time dancing, having some drinks, just f**king around and having fun. I'm not grinding with these girls, I'm usually throwing out corny sh*t at them and just having a laugh.
So anyway, I think you guys are focussing on the chumps who THINK they're more than friends with the girls they're around. But don't be afraid if there's a guy/girl mix having a good time... They probably all want to split off a bit by the end of the night
I go out with female friends a lot, and just about all of them are just that -- female friends. If some other guy starts dancing with them, good for them! Time for me to find someone to dance with, too (if I haven't already.)
In fact, having a few females in the mix when I go out is AMAZING for my game, especially clubs. The last thing I want to be at the club is one of those dudes who only came with his 'bros' and slithers around with them looking for targets like a pack of demented velociraptors. The best case scenario is when I'm with some good people (guys AND girls,) having a great time dancing, having some drinks, just f**king around and having fun. I'm not grinding with these girls, I'm usually throwing out corny sh*t at them and just having a laugh.
So anyway, I think you guys are focussing on the chumps who THINK they're more than friends with the girls they're around. But don't be afraid if there's a guy/girl mix having a good time... They probably all want to split off a bit by the end of the night
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
But he talks like a gentlemen.goodfoot said:
Traveling with girls helps with social proof from what I've seen. Other girls see you're comfortable to be around because of them.
This past weekend I had a girl grinding up on me (obviously looking for a f**k buddy...I find out later), her guy friends pulled her away. Whatever. She came back a few times later in the night repeating the same and went off, eventually finding one dude. One of her guy friends gets up to start fighting this dude she was after, BIG MISTAKE cause it just made her want the f**k guy even more and they left soon after, deciding to go to his place right in front of me (good observation for me as well to learn from), which he actually ended up counter-suggesting as a good move in case she flaked out at her's.
This past weekend I had a girl grinding up on me (obviously looking for a f**k buddy...I find out later), her guy friends pulled her away. Whatever. She came back a few times later in the night repeating the same and went off, eventually finding one dude. One of her guy friends gets up to start fighting this dude she was after, BIG MISTAKE cause it just made her want the f**k guy even more and they left soon after, deciding to go to his place right in front of me (good observation for me as well to learn from), which he actually ended up counter-suggesting as a good move in case she flaked out at her's.
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
Nothing wrong in having women friends in my opinion.
The problem occurs when you're interested her sexually and the feeling isn't mutal, so you follow her around like a lap dog when in reality you have more chance of shagging the pope than you do her.
One of my best mates is a girl, I've got no interest in sleeping with her but I love her to bits as a mate, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Plus, you get introduced to her girl mates, and she has some seriously hot friends!
The problem occurs when you're interested her sexually and the feeling isn't mutal, so you follow her around like a lap dog when in reality you have more chance of shagging the pope than you do her.
One of my best mates is a girl, I've got no interest in sleeping with her but I love her to bits as a mate, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Plus, you get introduced to her girl mates, and she has some seriously hot friends!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.