well, I do agree that those guys that hover around girls are probably trying to get in her. And yeah, they will try to c-block you if they see your coming on to that girl, even more so if your succeeding. I had a guy do that recently; got this girl to dance with me at a club and out of the corner of my eye I spot the guy glaring at me. Though it was nice revenge when he saw me get both a kiss (well, more like make out session) and a number (sent him a pretty ****y look too; kinda like a "yeah, I'll be probably be fvcking the girl you want" look). Hell, I might of been able to take her home with me too, but I decided to quit while I was ahead. I'll get with her soon enough anyways. :rockon:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
New trend?? "Guy Friends"
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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I'm very surprised with some of the responses here.
I go out with female friends a lot, and just about all of them are just that -- female friends. If some other guy starts dancing with them, good for them! Time for me to find someone to dance with, too (if I haven't already.)
In fact, having a few females in the mix when I go out is AMAZING for my game, especially clubs. The last thing I want to be at the club is one of those dudes who only came with his 'bros' and slithers around with them looking for targets like a pack of demented velociraptors. The best case scenario is when I'm with some good people (guys AND girls,) having a great time dancing, having some drinks, just f**king around and having fun. I'm not grinding with these girls, I'm usually throwing out corny sh*t at them and just having a laugh.
So anyway, I think you guys are focussing on the chumps who THINK they're more than friends with the girls they're around. But don't be afraid if there's a guy/girl mix having a good time... They probably all want to split off a bit by the end of the night
I go out with female friends a lot, and just about all of them are just that -- female friends. If some other guy starts dancing with them, good for them! Time for me to find someone to dance with, too (if I haven't already.)
In fact, having a few females in the mix when I go out is AMAZING for my game, especially clubs. The last thing I want to be at the club is one of those dudes who only came with his 'bros' and slithers around with them looking for targets like a pack of demented velociraptors. The best case scenario is when I'm with some good people (guys AND girls,) having a great time dancing, having some drinks, just f**king around and having fun. I'm not grinding with these girls, I'm usually throwing out corny sh*t at them and just having a laugh.
So anyway, I think you guys are focussing on the chumps who THINK they're more than friends with the girls they're around. But don't be afraid if there's a guy/girl mix having a good time... They probably all want to split off a bit by the end of the night
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
But he talks like a gentlemen.goodfoot said:
Traveling with girls helps with social proof from what I've seen. Other girls see you're comfortable to be around because of them.
This past weekend I had a girl grinding up on me (obviously looking for a f**k buddy...I find out later), her guy friends pulled her away. Whatever. She came back a few times later in the night repeating the same and went off, eventually finding one dude. One of her guy friends gets up to start fighting this dude she was after, BIG MISTAKE cause it just made her want the f**k guy even more and they left soon after, deciding to go to his place right in front of me (good observation for me as well to learn from), which he actually ended up counter-suggesting as a good move in case she flaked out at her's.
This past weekend I had a girl grinding up on me (obviously looking for a f**k buddy...I find out later), her guy friends pulled her away. Whatever. She came back a few times later in the night repeating the same and went off, eventually finding one dude. One of her guy friends gets up to start fighting this dude she was after, BIG MISTAKE cause it just made her want the f**k guy even more and they left soon after, deciding to go to his place right in front of me (good observation for me as well to learn from), which he actually ended up counter-suggesting as a good move in case she flaked out at her's.
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
Nothing wrong in having women friends in my opinion.
The problem occurs when you're interested her sexually and the feeling isn't mutal, so you follow her around like a lap dog when in reality you have more chance of shagging the pope than you do her.
One of my best mates is a girl, I've got no interest in sleeping with her but I love her to bits as a mate, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Plus, you get introduced to her girl mates, and she has some seriously hot friends!
The problem occurs when you're interested her sexually and the feeling isn't mutal, so you follow her around like a lap dog when in reality you have more chance of shagging the pope than you do her.
One of my best mates is a girl, I've got no interest in sleeping with her but I love her to bits as a mate, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Plus, you get introduced to her girl mates, and she has some seriously hot friends!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.