"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New trend,compensated dating!!

brokenupinside

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Gawd,leave it up to women to be innovative in this way.Just saw a piece on the news about compensated dating,the reason most often given:not desperation or poverty but just to buy cosmetics,cell phones and designer clothes.
Most compensated dating is being performed by teens,this is proof of the trend towards instant gratification and theory of entitlement that will carry towards their more mature years.
Of course what will they do after ,they will choose either some fatso with money right off the bat or leave their husband/bf for some fatso with money cause they are too lazy to work together for a future.

As Jophil said,all you need to be successful with women is money,coke,and to some extent looks.:cuss:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nutz

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So they're escorts, right?

And what's the link to the article you saw?
 
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taiyuu_otoko

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compensated "dating" has been popular here in japan for a long time. It's pretty much how some "students" can afford $500 luis vuiton bags.

They even have "clubs" where guys pay fifty bucks to get in, pay a girl for a "conversation" and where she decides if they will leave the club or not.

this is not a front for prostitution, as many guys are so AFC in japan they are more than willing to pay a high school or college girl for twenty minutes of conversation.

Hostess bars are also popular, where guys will go pay hundreds of dollars just to sit and drink, and talk with a hot looking girl.
 

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brokenupinside said:
As Jophil said,all you need to be successful with women is money,coke,and to some extent looks.:cuss:
Ooh, ouch..I must have been in a most cynical mood when I wrote that.
 

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I have been saying that my whole time here.

1. LOOKS
2. MONEY
3. COCAINE
4. FAME
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL...they call gold-digging "compensation dating" now and all of a sudden you get your panties in a bunch??

INNOVATIVE?? Bah! Oldest profession in the world.

This forum is supposed to be about seduction. There are other forums for whining about stupid behavior by chicks. If you knew anything about them, this wouldn't be a news-flash.
 

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No panties in a bunch here but thanks for the homo-erotic imagery.
I meant INNOVATIVE as in the labeling not the actual actions.
You are right ,wrong forum,this should be moved to the ANYTHING ELSE section,if moderators wish.
 
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