"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I liked that one. Maybe it's because I just got finished watching Dune, but it sounds more like a futuristic space journey than a morning light type of thing. Maybe it's a journey of the photons. Anyway, I enjoyed it.
 

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I liked that one. Maybe it's because I just got finished watching Dune, but it sounds more like a futuristic space journey than a morning light type of thing. Maybe it's a journey of the photons. Anyway, I enjoyed it.
Thanks!!!

If you're on a futuristic space journey, you have good reason to get up early!
 

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Hi Wife Hunter,
Your Nom de So Suave seems an oxymoron to your sign off tab
"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
Another Biblical Bon Mot....You might like one my Uncle used quote (KJV) 27 For a ***** is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit".
 

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Hi Wife Hunter,
Your Nom de So Suave seems an oxymoron to your sign off tab
"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
Another Biblical Bon Mot....You might like one my Uncle used quote (KJV) 27 For a ***** is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit".
Yep...too busy making music to hunt wife. : P
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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