"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Thanks!!!
If you're on a futuristic space journey, you have good reason to get up early!
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Wife Hunter,
Your Nom de So Suave seems an oxymoron to your sign off tab
"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
Another Biblical Bon Mot....You might like one my Uncle used quote (KJV) 27 For a ***** is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit".
Your Nom de So Suave seems an oxymoron to your sign off tab
"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
Another Biblical Bon Mot....You might like one my Uncle used quote (KJV) 27 For a ***** is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit".
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Yep...too busy making music to hunt wife. : P
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.