"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New town, new strategy, need new stuff for house

stinkyape

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OK,

I've recently moved towns. Got away from my old life completely and have gone back to school. This means I've voluntarily given up my No. 1 source of getting laid (which was my job at a club) in order to focus on studying. I've grown up a bit too, I think, as in the last couple of years ONS's with drunk girls have become less satisfying. Now I want to have some fun dating higher value (and sober) college girls.

My room is in a good state as it is. It's always clean and tidy, there's tasteful art prints by some of my favourite artists on the walls, a potplant, nice furniture (for a student - all solid wood and in good condition). I've got a couple of interesting things in there such as an interesting lamp and some unique trinkets... But I feel like it could be a lot better.

1) I'm looking to improve the smell. My room is clean, but it just smells like a room... A room where someone sleeps and spends a lot of time studying. Girls don't seem to recoil in horror from the smell, but I think it would be nice to improve that side of things. I was thinking about getting some sort of aromatherapy oil (the stuff in the little bottles at healthfood stores), but I've got no idea what to get. I want it to be something that'll help a girl feel comfortable and horny without making my room smell like a brothel - Any suggestions?

2) Going to get a TV/DVD so I can bring girls back here and watch movies in the comfort of my bedroom. Heh heh. Any suggestions for good DVDs to watch with them?

3) Anything else anyone could suggest having in my room?

Thanks for the help :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You want your room to smell like what? I mean, if it doesn't stink then I think you are good. If you start adding air fresheners or whatever, no offense, but that's kind of gay for a guy to do. Most guys don't worry about their smell. Sometimes even when they STINK they don't worry about it. But if you are bent on it, then you should go the incense route. Burning incense doesn't seem to be quite as bad as a guy buying air fresheners. lol

Aromatherapy oil? Comn man. Damn.

TV/DVD is a decent idea, if only to entertain yourself. What kinds of DVDs should you buy? Buy what you like. If you get a woman back to your room, watching a movie is probably the last thing on her mind.
 

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  1. Vanilla
  2. The Secretary
  3. A woman
 

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Vypros said:
You want your room to smell like what? I mean, if it doesn't stink then I think you are good. If you start adding air fresheners or whatever, no offense, but that's kind of gay for a guy to do. Most guys don't worry about their smell. Sometimes even when they STINK they don't worry about it. But if you are bent on it, then you should go the incense route. Burning incense doesn't seem to be quite as bad as a guy buying air fresheners. lol

Aromatherapy oil? Comn man. Damn.

TV/DVD is a decent idea, if only to entertain yourself. What kinds of DVDs should you buy? Buy what you like. If you get a woman back to your room, watching a movie is probably the last thing on her mind.
Yeah, looking gay is what I'm worried about :D - But surely it's possible to have a nice smelling room without having my sexuality called into question. Also I think burning incense is WAY gayer than dripping some scented oil on a hot surface. Also I've never smelt incense that doesn't make me gag - it all seems to tacky!

The Secretary. Kinky...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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