"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New town, new strategy, need new stuff for house

stinkyape

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OK,

I've recently moved towns. Got away from my old life completely and have gone back to school. This means I've voluntarily given up my No. 1 source of getting laid (which was my job at a club) in order to focus on studying. I've grown up a bit too, I think, as in the last couple of years ONS's with drunk girls have become less satisfying. Now I want to have some fun dating higher value (and sober) college girls.

My room is in a good state as it is. It's always clean and tidy, there's tasteful art prints by some of my favourite artists on the walls, a potplant, nice furniture (for a student - all solid wood and in good condition). I've got a couple of interesting things in there such as an interesting lamp and some unique trinkets... But I feel like it could be a lot better.

1) I'm looking to improve the smell. My room is clean, but it just smells like a room... A room where someone sleeps and spends a lot of time studying. Girls don't seem to recoil in horror from the smell, but I think it would be nice to improve that side of things. I was thinking about getting some sort of aromatherapy oil (the stuff in the little bottles at healthfood stores), but I've got no idea what to get. I want it to be something that'll help a girl feel comfortable and horny without making my room smell like a brothel - Any suggestions?

2) Going to get a TV/DVD so I can bring girls back here and watch movies in the comfort of my bedroom. Heh heh. Any suggestions for good DVDs to watch with them?

3) Anything else anyone could suggest having in my room?

Thanks for the help :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You want your room to smell like what? I mean, if it doesn't stink then I think you are good. If you start adding air fresheners or whatever, no offense, but that's kind of gay for a guy to do. Most guys don't worry about their smell. Sometimes even when they STINK they don't worry about it. But if you are bent on it, then you should go the incense route. Burning incense doesn't seem to be quite as bad as a guy buying air fresheners. lol

Aromatherapy oil? Comn man. Damn.

TV/DVD is a decent idea, if only to entertain yourself. What kinds of DVDs should you buy? Buy what you like. If you get a woman back to your room, watching a movie is probably the last thing on her mind.
 

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Vypros said:
You want your room to smell like what? I mean, if it doesn't stink then I think you are good. If you start adding air fresheners or whatever, no offense, but that's kind of gay for a guy to do. Most guys don't worry about their smell. Sometimes even when they STINK they don't worry about it. But if you are bent on it, then you should go the incense route. Burning incense doesn't seem to be quite as bad as a guy buying air fresheners. lol

Aromatherapy oil? Comn man. Damn.

TV/DVD is a decent idea, if only to entertain yourself. What kinds of DVDs should you buy? Buy what you like. If you get a woman back to your room, watching a movie is probably the last thing on her mind.
Yeah, looking gay is what I'm worried about :D - But surely it's possible to have a nice smelling room without having my sexuality called into question. Also I think burning incense is WAY gayer than dripping some scented oil on a hot surface. Also I've never smelt incense that doesn't make me gag - it all seems to tacky!

The Secretary. Kinky...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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