"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New to the Community...Will she call back?

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Well, I'm new to the DJ community and have been recently be reintroduced into the dating scene after being recently divorced. As you can imagine, my skills are a little rusty! :)

I'll try to be brief.

The Story:
This last Friday I went to a restaurant with a female friend of mine for a few drinks. After some flirty behavior from the waitress (yes I know she gets paid to be nice! :) ) My female friend also catches on to a few of the waitress' IOIs. I then after more small talk and whatnot, suggest that we get coffee sometime. She gives me her number and I leave.

I wait until Monday evening to call. I get her voicemail and leave no message.

I try back again Wednesday evening. Same thing. She then calls me back later that evening.

We chat about her job and she says that she's been rather busy with working a lot and moving into a new apartment. After some more chit chat I hit her up for a date next week. She said that she'll keep my number and give me a call when she's less busy.

Her: Talk to you later sweetie.
Me: Until then, take care.

The Question:
Is she going to call back? I realize she is being somewhat dodgy which I interpret to be a lack of interest. Any thoughts?

Thank you in advance!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me give you a piece of advice... Despite if she calls back, or doesn't, keep going out and meeting new, interesting women. Literally do not put all of your eggs (hope for relationship?) in one woman. Not only will you expand your social network to maybe meet more available women, but you might find you like one over the other. You never know until you try.

Will she call back? Most do not unless they are really interested in you. You could wait a week and call her then to remind her of your date.

And just some IOI's from a few waitresses isn't going to put you up there in her mind with the likes of previous boyfriends and such. You must communicate your sexual value to her, intrigue her imagination, let her wonder what it would be like.

Hope I could help :)
 
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Thanks for the advice. You're totally right. Being more active can only bring more results.

Again, thanks.
 
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