Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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New to the Community...Will she call back?

NorthernSoul

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Well, I'm new to the DJ community and have been recently be reintroduced into the dating scene after being recently divorced. As you can imagine, my skills are a little rusty! :)

I'll try to be brief.

The Story:
This last Friday I went to a restaurant with a female friend of mine for a few drinks. After some flirty behavior from the waitress (yes I know she gets paid to be nice! :) ) My female friend also catches on to a few of the waitress' IOIs. I then after more small talk and whatnot, suggest that we get coffee sometime. She gives me her number and I leave.

I wait until Monday evening to call. I get her voicemail and leave no message.

I try back again Wednesday evening. Same thing. She then calls me back later that evening.

We chat about her job and she says that she's been rather busy with working a lot and moving into a new apartment. After some more chit chat I hit her up for a date next week. She said that she'll keep my number and give me a call when she's less busy.

Her: Talk to you later sweetie.
Me: Until then, take care.

The Question:
Is she going to call back? I realize she is being somewhat dodgy which I interpret to be a lack of interest. Any thoughts?

Thank you in advance!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let me give you a piece of advice... Despite if she calls back, or doesn't, keep going out and meeting new, interesting women. Literally do not put all of your eggs (hope for relationship?) in one woman. Not only will you expand your social network to maybe meet more available women, but you might find you like one over the other. You never know until you try.

Will she call back? Most do not unless they are really interested in you. You could wait a week and call her then to remind her of your date.

And just some IOI's from a few waitresses isn't going to put you up there in her mind with the likes of previous boyfriends and such. You must communicate your sexual value to her, intrigue her imagination, let her wonder what it would be like.

Hope I could help :)
 

NorthernSoul

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Thanks for the advice. You're totally right. Being more active can only bring more results.

Again, thanks.
 
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