"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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new to forum, need help!!

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hey fellas,
new to the forum and so far so good. Learnt to 'go in balls deep', but am yet to put this theory into practise. My situation is put simply; sh!t. i go to an all boy school which sucks, so i dont meet/know too many girls. Just wondering how you blokes would go about meeting new girls if you were in my situation.
I'll keep you updated with any of my progress.

any help appreciated, cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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Go to a mall or something. Talk to every girl you see. It's not going to be easy dude, you just gotta do it.
 
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yeah, i'll just have to grow the knackers... meanwhile, when you say 'go to parties', i cant just go, i have to get invited you know? I'm fairly shy and dont get invited to too many parties...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hahaha pommy ;)

cheers for the advide fellas, hopefully the bloke in strife will cease to exist in the coming weeks...
 
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"Going balls deep" applies to your male friends too. Stop being shy around the blokes as well and get invited to parties. Go out. Crash a couple of parties if you have to. Just don't be a d!ck about it.
 
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