"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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new to forum, need help!!

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hey fellas,
new to the forum and so far so good. Learnt to 'go in balls deep', but am yet to put this theory into practise. My situation is put simply; sh!t. i go to an all boy school which sucks, so i dont meet/know too many girls. Just wondering how you blokes would go about meeting new girls if you were in my situation.
I'll keep you updated with any of my progress.

any help appreciated, cheers!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LearningSlowly

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Go to a mall or something. Talk to every girl you see. It's not going to be easy dude, you just gotta do it.
 
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yeah, i'll just have to grow the knackers... meanwhile, when you say 'go to parties', i cant just go, i have to get invited you know? I'm fairly shy and dont get invited to too many parties...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hahaha pommy ;)

cheers for the advide fellas, hopefully the bloke in strife will cease to exist in the coming weeks...
 
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"Going balls deep" applies to your male friends too. Stop being shy around the blokes as well and get invited to parties. Go out. Crash a couple of parties if you have to. Just don't be a d!ck about it.
 
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