"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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new to forum, need help!!

blokeinstrife

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hey fellas,
new to the forum and so far so good. Learnt to 'go in balls deep', but am yet to put this theory into practise. My situation is put simply; sh!t. i go to an all boy school which sucks, so i dont meet/know too many girls. Just wondering how you blokes would go about meeting new girls if you were in my situation.
I'll keep you updated with any of my progress.

any help appreciated, cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly

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Go to a mall or something. Talk to every girl you see. It's not going to be easy dude, you just gotta do it.
 

blokeinstrife

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yeah, i'll just have to grow the knackers... meanwhile, when you say 'go to parties', i cant just go, i have to get invited you know? I'm fairly shy and dont get invited to too many parties...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blokeinstrife

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Hahaha pommy ;)

cheers for the advide fellas, hopefully the bloke in strife will cease to exist in the coming weeks...
 

Amo

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"Going balls deep" applies to your male friends too. Stop being shy around the blokes as well and get invited to parties. Go out. Crash a couple of parties if you have to. Just don't be a d!ck about it.
 
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