"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok so there's this girl I've been seeing frequently at school. She is completely random..I don't have any classes with her nor have I seen her before this semester. I've been meaning to go up to her but I dont want to seem like weirdo. And shes always sitting with either one of friends or like 4 of them (most of the time just one). I'm starting to get impatient because I really don't have a problem talking to girls that I have connection with (girls in my classes, or through friends). Semester is almost over and I'm thinking about going up to her tomorrow regardless if she's with her friend/s. Cuz I can't pass up the opportunity of not knowing what could've happenedmbetween us. Could you guys help me out? Any way of starting to talk to her without her thinking I'm wired? Lol. I was just thinking of saying "hey I've been seeing you around here lately and it's bugging me that we haven't met" or something along those lines... And like I said, her friend/s are an issue
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Htienvu

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I guess try to talk to her in an isolated situation would be best! If you can't then be brave and just walk up to her, that line isn't a bad one. If you don't freak out and start mumbling then you will get credit for being confident. Read the DJ bible bottom left of the forum.
 
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just one chics amongst millions of chics, try your direct approach like you're wanting, it may work, it may not work. It has worked in the past for me, but you really just have to try it. I think it really works well as long as you dont try to force it.
 
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so i pussied out of it. hopefully i'll see her again on friday. if not then oh well i guess
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go direct. Tell her you think she's cute and would like to learn more about her.

And believe you can do it. Otherwise, she'll see right through your fake game and weed you out. And if you die tomorrow, you'll regret it. Man the fvck up and at least go talk to her. Stop wasting time.
 
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